Saturday, March 16, 2013

Ghost Story #1 - Haunted Nursing Home


I wrote this up for a local ghost hunting group asking for ghost stories from our area over a year and a half ago...I haven't been at the Lodge for 3yrs now. Hope you enjoy! :D

I've been working at the Lodge, beside the hospital, for the last year and a half. I started on Night Shift for the first 8-9 months then went to days. At night, we definitely experienced a number of incidents that we couldn't explain. Things would happen during the day as well, but they aren't as noticeable because of the noise of ‘living’. *smile*

A very common occurrence usually happened just after the evening shift would leave…about midnight…and my coworker, Amy, and I were still sitting in our staff room. We’d be chatting away then one of us would hear the sound of a teaspoon clanging in a coffee cup, like someone was stirring their coffee, in the dining room next door. When we went in to see who was up, no one was ever there…or even in the surrounding hallways. We always took that to mean we’d better get to work! LOL

Something else that happened often on night shift was the sound of slamming doors in the old section of the Lodge. Our senior staff would tell us that it was ‘Fred’ the boiler system in the basement starting up, but on MANY occasions, Amy and I would test that theory…as soon as we heard the ‘slam’ we’d listen carefully by the stairway to hear if the boiler system would kick in. I’d say at least half the time it wasn't ‘Fred’! 

We've all had individual experiences as well. Usually one of us would stay in the kitchen to bake and the other would go around the rest of the Lodge cleaning. I was dusting down by the shuffleboard area one night…at about 3:30 am. All of a sudden I could hear a couple of female voices, chatting and laughing. I couldn't make out what they were saying, they were quite muffled. I just assumed that someone had left a TV on in their room, so I listened at the door of all the surrounding rooms, but there was no noise coming from any of them. I was so unnerved by that incident that I wore my MP3 player every night after that so I wouldn't hear anything like that again! 

There was another time, within a week of this experience, that Amy was doing our 2 hour 'check' walk around the Lodge. She came back to tell me that while she was rounding the corner at the shuffleboard area, she looked up just as she was walking through a mist. She said it completely caught her off guard because she had her head down, singing away to her iPod. It reminded her of walking through fog. She was freaked right out when I told her about what happened to me at that spot! We also had one young girl who worked on nights who said she saw the silouette of a woman sitting in the chair once in that area. I never would have believed her that easily if we hadn't had experiences there ourselves....and we never told ANYONE about it! It was frowned upon by management for staff to tell 'ghost stories', they didn't want us scaring their new staff! ;D

Another time when I was working by myself during the Norwalk Virus outbreak in Mar 2008, I was baking muffins at the rear of the kitchen. I was listening to my headphones so I didn't pay much attention to my surroundings. I turned around to get something from the fridge and stopped dead in my tracks….the kitchen door was CLOSED!! I was completely stunned! The door was always held open with a wooden wedge…I’d never seen it close on its own…and I was the only one in the building that was awake! Needless to say that was a LONG night…

Amy and I were talking about our experiences one time during a coffee break we took with one of our residents who was always up at 4am, he looked at us and asked “You believe in ghosts?” I thought he was just gonna make fun of us, but then he said “I've seen two since I moved in here. I haven’t told anyone because I figured they’d just think I was crazy!” Surprisingly, he told us that he saw a woman with a child at the end his hallway….by the shuffleboard! Leo’s a very friendly man, so he said he’d walked about half way down to greet her when she and her lil boy just disappeared! Another time, Leo said that when he first moved in, he'd met a lady just outside his room after breakfast who he thought was another resident he hadn't met yet. He's a real ladies' man, lol, so he invited her into his suite for coffee. He closed the door behind them and started chatting away while he was filling the kettle with water. He said he turned around and she was GONE! The only people he ever told that story to was us! He said he didn't wanna look like a nutcase, being so new. Amy and I started working there at about the same time he moved in...in Feb'08. Curious about this, we looked back in the resident records to find that there was a woman who had just passed away in the room next to him the month before. The strangest part of this tale is that rumblings among the staff blamed our manager's lack of management skills for this woman's death. When I was being interviewed for the job, it was -38C outside and they were having a lot of problems with the heating system in the new area of the building. Some of the evening staff told me that this lady's room was always freezing, to the point of ice building up on the walls around her bed. She died from pneumonia just before my first week. :-(

After I had moved to days, we lost one of our favorite old guys to cancer. He was such a trouble maker...when we were on nights, he'd always try to spook us because he knew about our ghostly chats and thought it was hilarious to scare us at 3 or 4am when we never expected him to be up. I had taken over the head cook position and had been cooking for a while before that day when our housekeeper found him in his room as she went to call him for lunch. We were quite upset by the news, we all loved him! For the next 3 days...just before lunch, very weird things started to happen in the kitchen. The freezer and fridge doors closed on me when I was the only one there, serving utensils would go missing just as we were in a rush to serve, and on the third day, in front of myself and the dining room staff, a steel pot lifted up off the pot rack on the island and dropped with this huge BANG onto the counter! The hooks face upward so it wasn't possible for it to have fallen off by itself! Haha...the entire dining room when dead silent, then I heard one of the ladies at the first table say to the lady next to her "Did you see that?! Nobody touched that pot!" I'm so glad the residents saw it too...I felt like I was starting to go nuts or something! That was Mel's final performance...he got EVERYONE'S attention with that one, he was happy and didn't need to scare us anymore! 

Just last week, one of our residents claimed that some paramedics walked into her room at 4am. She was startled and got out of bed to greet them. The taller of the men asked her if she had called 911. She said she hadn't and they asked her if she was in room 230. She told them that 230 was across the hall, and closed the door behind them as they left her room. In the morning she asked us if the night shift workers had let the paramedics into her locked room…we told her that there were no paramedics called that night. She was very concerned that people other than staff might have access to the master keys to the building. We told her there was no way anyone could even come into the alarmed outer doors, let alone into their rooms without our knowledge. We managed to convince her that it was just a dream. It wasn't until later that afternoon that we realized room 230 was the room that a new resident had fallen in a couple months ago and had died in the hospital the following week. It was around 4:30am when the paramedics left with her! That room has been empty since then.

Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Pagan Blog Project - D is for Divination

Divination. This practice seems to be almost as attached to the word 'witchcraft' as 'witchcraft' is attached to the word 'Wicca'. You know what I mean. They say that most witches practice divination, but not all diviners are witches...just like most Wiccans practice witchcraft, but not all witches are Wiccan....and vice versa....but really, who are 'they' anyway?

The point is this...when one thinks of divination, the occult automatically comes to mind. Many of us were drawn into this realm as preteens by the beckoning of an ouija board planchette at a slumber party or the sultry temptation of the Lovers card in our older sister's secret tarot deck. The potential of unlocking some of life's mysteries has always been a fascination of mankind and a staple in the pagan world for centuries. I still have my very first Ryder-Waite deck from when I was probably 12 or 13yrs old and now at 42, I'm excited to be currently breaking in the newest addition to my collection...The Erotic Tarot by Manara....YUM!! Surprisingly enough, after 24yrs together, my husband has taken a sudden interest in tarot now, too.  LOL ;D



Sunday, March 10, 2013

Pagan Blog Project - C is for Curiosity

Author Richard Dawkins, who wrote The God Delusion. Photo: Reuters

Paganism can be an awesome launching pad, especially for children and teens, from which to explore what religion, faith and spirituality really means to the average person. There is little restrictive dogma resulting in confined thought processes when it comes to general paganism, unless one eventually feels called to follow one of the more structured traditions that fall under this same umbrella. Even then, new practitioners are rarely, if ever, bullied into believing what their mentors believe in or 'suffer eternal damnation'. Pagans encourage curiosity in everyone which is a wonderful thing since it nurtures free thinking in all and wards off conformity & control.

Pagan Blog Project: B is for Balance

**Ok, so I see keeping up with this project is already proving to be a challenge for me. LOL I think I'll just do one post every 2wks on each letter instead of the 2 posts on each letter...and hope for the best! ;D**

Of all the things I've learned following this path, the most important would have to be recognizing the need for balance in all things. Whether we're talking about life and death, light and shadow, positive and negative, masculine and feminine, or even in working with the pH levels in our garden soil to grow our herbs, fruits and vegetables...balance is always the key to success.




The conceptual polarity of the divine itself is what drew me to a pagan path to begin with. The rest of the world seemed completely out of balance without the feminine divine! 

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Pagan Blog Project: A is for Apothecary


"Apothecary (pron.: /əˈpɒθɨkəri/) is a historical name for a medical professional who formulates and dispenses materia medica to physicians, surgeons and patients — a role now served by a pharmacist (or a chemist or dispensing chemist) and some caregivers. In addition to pharmacy responsibilities, the apothecary offered general medical advice and a range of services that are now performed solely by other specialist practitioners, such as surgery and midwifery. Apothecaries often operated through a retail shop."


Today, I see many witches as apothecaries, especially those who operate small businesses like...

The Green Eyed Owl http://www.thegreeneyedowl.org/ 


or The Mother Moon Pagan Monasteries. http://www.themoonmother.net/The_Moon_Mother/A_Space_of_Love.html


Nothing says pagan to me more than freshly cultivated herbs, lovingly measured and mixed by the talented hands of an herbalist...a natural healer. 




Pagan Blog Project: A is for Avalon

**A late start to the project...but it looks like a lot of fun, so I'm playing catch up to join in!**

Avalon....
Is there any other word as magical as Avalon? Not in my world. I can't even say it without whispering....Avalon...*sigh*



A beautiful, mysterious island featured in Arthurian legend, Avalon is truly a magical place that naturally bears an abundance of vegetable, fruit and grain without cultivation and where people can easily live to be 100 years or more. Paradise on earth, or so the legends go, inhabited by nine sisters... including the powerful sorceress, Morgan Le Fay.


Friday, February 1, 2013

Keeping an Open Mind...

It's funny how the universe listens, isn't it? When your mind is open to any possibility, it's absolutely amazing how the universe will reward it with more information...and more possibilities. My last blog post was a reflection of how I had finally given up on trying to understand the Starseed concept supposedly behind this shift in consciousness that we are experiencing. In all honesty, I never really understood it and it all seemed far too unrealistic for me to even take seriously. So, I admitted that out loud by publishing the post and moved on in my spiritual quest.

As I was watching another great video by one of my favorite Youtubers...Miss Annika from OathBoundSecrets...a video name on the side bar caught my eye. The channel it lead me to is called Spirit Science. I've been exploring this channel for the last two days now and I am truly fascinated with it's content. It delivers this entire concept in lesson form and speaks to me with such a voice that I'm captivated by it and yearning to learn more!


Now, I'm definitely not admitting that I believe in any of it, but the links that this young man offers between history, science and spirituality are undeniably profound. He provides endless pdf files and other links to corroborate this information he renders in his videos. What I find especially impressive is that he repeatedly tells the viewer not to believe what he says as fact, but to research the truth for themselves before they come to any conclusions about the material....a similar approach to enlightenment shared by one of the philosophies I've admired since my early adult years, Buddhism. 


So, in the spirit of keeping an open mind, I will continue to learn. My quest to find the truth keeps moving me forward and strengthens my purpose in life...to spread love and understanding to help all those in my world know tolerance. Without knowledge tolerance, won't exist and only through tolerance will we ever know peace.